A new life in the United States

Fred Marcus

Fred Marcus

Fred arrives in San Francisco on February 22, 1949, and quickly settles into his new life in the United States. He finds a job at the Huntington Hotel in San Francisco and continues his hotel career for the next 15 years. His old friend from Berlin and Shanghai, Ted [Theo] Alexander, is also in San Francisco, and with Ted’s help Fred starts teaching Sunday school at a local synagogue. His new part-time job soon leads to a second career: at the urging of his rabbi, he pursues first a bachelor’s, and then a master’s degree in Jewish education at Hebrew Union College in Los Angeles.

Despite his upbringing in a relatively non-observant Jewish family, since leaving Berlin Fred has learned to embrace his Jewish identity and faith, largely through his close relationship with the Alexander family in Shanghai. His career in Jewish education culminates in his being named President of the National Association of Temple Educators in 1980, a year before his retirement.

Transcript

Fred Marcus: I came to the United States very quickly. I found a good job in the hotel business. I worked from 1949 to 1964 at the Huntington Hotel in San Francisco, had an excellent position, was well-liked and very successful. But the hand of fate, usually called ‘Alexander’ in my family, was at work again.

And Ted [Theo Alexander] got me a job as a Sunday school teacher in one of the synagogues of San Francisco. And my good Jewish background from the Jewish high school came in stead and of—took me in good stead, as well as this experience with his family. Within two years, people said, "You have very great administrative talents. Would you come to our synagogue and run the religious school on a part-time basis?"

By the time I—while I was still working in the hotel six days a week, I spent two days in a synagogue running programs. And by that time, in 1967, I had a school of 700 students and took the place of a person who was running the school full-time as a part-time person. My rabbi—Gitten—whom I mentioned earlier, my mentor, said, “Well, we want you to come to us full-time under one condition: that you go and get a master's degree in Jewish education.”

And it was only at that time—and I was 40 years old—that I worked full-time in the congregation, commuted to Los Angeles, and became—got first a bachelor's degree and then a master's degree from the Hebrew Union College. And from then on, it was Jewish education all the way.

"And from then on, it was Jewish education all the way."

USC Shoah Foundation Visual History Archive, Interview 9214

Fred at work at the Huntington Hotel in San Francisco.

Courtesy of Audrey Friedman Marcus.

Fred and Ted Alexander, his childhood friend from Berlin, conducting services together in San Francisco in the 1950s.

Courtesy of Audrey Friedman Marcus.

Fred marries Lucille Rosenbloom in 1951, and together they have a daughter, Vivian, and a son, David. The marriage ends in divorce. In 1974, Fred marries again, this time to fellow Jewish educator and publicist Audrey Friedman Marcus, who has three children from a previous marriage. Together, they and their respective children form a loving family, which over the years grows to include ten grandchildren.

After Fred’s retirement in 1981, he and Audrey move to Denver, CO, where Audrey is from, and Fred begins a third career as a travel consultant. He and Audrey travel extensively on their own and leading tour groups, visiting over 100 countries. Their many trips include several visits to Germany and to China, where Fred seeks to reconnect with his past experiences. It is during one such trip to Germany in 2002 that Fred suffers a heart attack and dies.

Fred’s memory lives on in the Fred Marcus Memorial Holocaust Lecture, initiated by Audrey and inaugurated in 2003 in partnership with the Holocaust Awareness Institute at the University of Denver’s Center for Judaic Studies. The annual lecture presents innovative research in Holocaust studies and promotes Holocaust education. Fred was a member of the Institute’s Survivor Speakers Bureau for years.

Fred and Audrey during their last trip to Germany, June 2002.

Courtesy of Audrey Friedman Marcus.

Transcript

Fred Marcus: And of course, I spent most of my lifetime in San Francisco in the Bay Area. Somebody asked me what my hometown is. I—I used to say, “San Francisco”—still do very often. But now with our frequent visits to Berlin, it—Berlin has become more real to me.”

Interviewer: I'd like to talk some about your life since then, but I'm—I'm wondering why, at the time, you didn't return to Berlin.

Fred Marcus: I don't think-- with very few exceptions—anybody entertained the idea of returning to the country, where such horrors had been perpetrated. I am proud to say that today, I have a number of German friends, good friends, decent people, you would be proud to call your friend and—but they're all young people. But to return to that society that made possible what happened was practically unthinkable. I can think only of one person who our circle of friends, Ted's and mine, who went back. And he went back because he had no place else to go. He was an old bachelor, very set in his ways. And he went back, and he hanged himself. We urged him not to go.”

Interviewer: At what point were you finally able to go back to Berlin?

Fred Marcus: It was incredibly difficult to go back there emotionally, and it still is, as I have a love/hate relationship. And it is not something that happened overnight. Gradually, gradually, you begin to see that there are some decent people there, that I had some good times there, that they're highly cultured people, and that you can have a wonderful time there, and that you have to take the bitter with the sweet, just like we have to do it in our own country. And so it was a process that, gradually, every time I went, I felt a little more comfortable.”

And I am immensely indebted to my wife, who is very supportive.

I'm afraid it's not going to go away. It's just something that is—I have to live with as long as I can.

Interviewer: Take your time.

Fred Marcus: Next question, dear friend.

Interviewer: OK. So when you say you're indebted to your wife, can you say why? You—you mentioned support, but what does that support mean to you?

Fred Marcus: Boy, how do you put that into words? A normal reaction of a less supportive, empathetic, and loving person, quite acceptable, would have been, "How do you-- why do you take me to this horrible place?" There are still thousands of my contemporaries, of my cohort Jews who will not set foot on Germany, who will die with the old prejudice in their heart and perpetuate the hatred and the misery that was brought upon us and upon themselves just out of sheer, blind hatred.

And I think it's a major, major challenge in my life and in everybody's life to overcome that. If we want to create a better world for our Joshuas and Anyas and my little grandson, Gabe, then we have to overcome this parochial feeling, and we have to create a better world.

I'm afraid it's not going to go away. It's just something that is—I have to live with as long as I can.

USC Shoah Foundation Visual History Archive, Interview 9214

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